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James Newton[JMN-EFP-786] Published and replied to post 39370.257662037 by kims

|Insert 'Very good question and from what I've personally seen, it's more common than one might think. My wife and I had a simular experience. I'm going to give you MY opinion here, and it is pretty strong, but hopefully others will have ideas as well.

First: Stop the wedding plans until this is resolved. Sex is like air, it's only important when you aren't getting any. If he expects sex and you aren't turned on by his actions, it is going to put a HUGE strain on your marrage.

Second: Some people can't change. I had a good friend who used to say "Straight of itself, not made straight" on a regular basis... Of course, he was single... But the point is that if he can't deal with it, you may need to make an arrangement with someone else to have your needs filled and your fiance' will have to deal with that or not. I know several people who have such an arrangement.

Finally: Try to explain to him the difference between being hurt (like you don't want and he would never want to do), and being hurt (like you DO want and it would be a kindness for him to do). Show him "<a href="http://imdb.com/title/tt0274812/">Secretary</a> or <a href="http://www.shopinprivate.com/screwrossenm.html">Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns</a> so he can see there are other people with the same needs. Talk about it a lot and impress on him how important it is for you. He may learn to love it. I did.' at: '<!-- 39370.257662037 EOR -->'

<A TITLE="P-168.210.208.52" NAME="39370.257662037" HREF="mailto:kims@relyant.co.za">kims@relyant.co.za</A> asks: <BLOCKQUOTE><A NAME="168.210.208.52">
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I'm completely into BDSM but my fiance' isn't. How can I get him interested in being my dom? Please help. I feel like I can't enjoy anything because it's not what I want.</BLOCKQUOTE>

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