On 17/03/2011 18:30, Olin Lathrop wrote: > Oli Glaser wrote: >> The goal is not to "win" or to "teach", rather to cooperatively seek >> out and further knowledge and understanding. > But that's either a load of crap or grossly naive. Usually you start a > discussion because you want to convince someone or you want information. > Very rarely is it ballanced where you simply want to "discuss" something = and > see where it leads. It happens, but most conversations don't have that g= oal > in mind. That doesn't make the other conversations useless or invalid > though. > No, of course not - all I was pointing out is that maybe then they=20 become something other than a "discussion" by definition. By that token,=20 most conversations will be a combination of discussion, lecture,=20 argument and so on. If the diagram is trying to say all other modes of communication are=20 useless (not really sure - it does say something about a "waste of=20 time") then no, I don't agree there - arguments, lectures, etc all have=20 their uses also. If I can infer a "useful" message there, it is maybe that sometimes we=20 lose sight of the intellectual goals in pursuit of more "personal" and=20 immediate ones, and this can waste time being unproductive. I'm sure you=20 can agree with that to some extent. --=20 http://www.piclist.com PIC/SX FAQ & list archive View/change your membership options at http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/piclist .