> OK, I'm not totally sure you aren't trolling now, but I'll try > and explain this seriously one more time. The message poster whom I replied with the link said he was "just amused" with it. What's special about you that makes you so excited with the single link I posted? Your lengthy post is over-stuffed with such words/phrases as "trolling", "You moron", "you being a jerk" etc and you don't find it to be offensive. My wikipedia-single-link without comments in reply even not to you somewhow offends you immensely, while to whom it was intended it's just an amusement :-) Regards. > In one sense when you tell someone of a mistake they made, you are doing > them a favor. =A0However, there is always a fine line between unsolicited > advice and nagging. =A0And, when you do it on the PICList you are also > pointing out that same mistake to 2000 other people. =A0Now the fine line= is > between helpfulness and public ridicule. > > Imagine you are at a banquet and the guy sitting next to you stands up to > make a brief speach. =A0He says "... first I went to the store, than I we= nt > home". =A0You wait until he sits down, lean over, and tell him privately = that > by the way, that should be "then", not "than". =A0He might be thankful, o= r he > might be annoyed, but since it was done privately it could be acceptable = in > some contexts. =A0What you are doing by correcting someone on the PIClist > however, whether you intend it or not, is more like standing up and saying > "You moron, that should be "then", not "than". =A0Why don't you come back= when > you've earned your 7th grade equivalency certificate", and then you laugh > and everybody else laughs at him too. > > There are times and places for correcting people, and times and places wh= ere > its irritating, belittling, and therefore rude. =A0The more publicly it's > done, the more likely it will be perceived as the latter. =A0Even the pri= vate > advice in the above example could fall into this catagory depending on > context we don't know. =A0The fact that the PIClist is highly public, the= re > are enough people here who struggle with english since it's not their fir= st > language, and language usage is not the domain of the PIClist, you should > assume all such comments will be irritating to the recipient and seen as > belittling and rude by others. > > Also keep in mind there are two classes of language mistakes. =A0Mere > accidents, typos if you will, and true errors where one didn't know bette= r. > Correcting the former is rarely useful. =A0At best someone realizes that > something slipped thru his filters. =A0Correcting the second may be helpf= ul > sometimes. =A0However, it's really hard to tell which is which, especiall= y for > someone that didn't grow up with the language. =A0And there is no guarant= ee > that correcting the second type of error will be well received either. = =A0That > depends on the context, person, nature of the error, previous history, and > proximity to dead fish. =A0In other words, it depends on various factors = you > can't know, so you're essentially rolling the dice. > > For example, when I wrote "its" intead of "it's" earlier, it was just a > typo. =A0I know the difference, and generally try to be careful. =A0Somet= imes > I'm more hurried than other times and may do less proofreading. =A0Then t= his > is also the PIClist where a occasional slipup of that nature should be > forgiveable, I wasn't getting paid to write anything, and I think the > meaning was still quite clear. =A0When I saw your comment, I thought to m= yself > "Doh, how did that slip thru?", but I also thought your pointing out one = of > the (I think) relatively rare times I screw up like that was unfair, > irritating, and that you were deliberately being a jerk. =A0I decided to = let > it go because I think most people watching the interchange would have a > pretty clear idea of what was really going on (my minor mistake, you bein= g a > jerk). > > In contrast, the resistor power example from a earlier post is fair game > because it is within the domain of this list. =A0First we have a right, in > fact I think a obligation, not to let incorrect statements within the dom= ain > of the list go unchallenged. =A0Second, since people come here to talk ab= out > such things, they have implicitly requested advice on these topics. =A0An= yone > that can't handle being told, "no, it's 9W, not 45mJ, here's the math..." > doesn't belong here. =A0On the PIClist, that's very different from "no, i= t's > 'then', not 'than', here's the dictionary reference...". > > Hopefully this helps and you understand. =A0But if not, at least take away > that this is how it is whether you understand it or not. > > > ******************************************************************** > Embed Inc, Littleton Massachusetts, http://www.embedinc.com/products > (978) 742-9014. =A0Gold level PIC consultants since 2000. > -- > http://www.piclist.com PIC/SX FAQ & list archive > View/change your membership options at > http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/piclist > -- = http://www.piclist.com PIC/SX FAQ & list archive View/change your membership options at http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/piclist