>Anyone know of an IC to do gate drive for something like this?

I take it that you are not PWM driving this seeing you say it will be on for 
days.

In that case I would use a small isolated dc-dc converter to get a drive 
voltage above the supply voltage, and make a gate drive circuit out of 
discrete devices, as you are not looking for real high speed switching. 

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