David VanHorn wrote: > For someone to cavalierly say "just suck it up sister", is about as > hurtful a thing as I can imagine, both to her and to me.. However, it's > rather easy to say that when you're talking about some anonymous third > party. What I'm wondering is... nobody has (to my knowledge) said anything the like. The only ones who brought this type of bashing into play were the ones saying others shouldn't do it -- without anybody actually doing it. This can be as bad (for a discussion at least) as actually saying it. And as (anonymously) hurtful. Gerhard -- http://www.piclist.com PIC/SX FAQ & list archive View/change your membership options at http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/piclist