> For me the core difference is whether it is open or not. In that
sense,
> the
> better term is "betrayal". Just having sex with somebody else is not
> necessarily betrayal; lying about it is. And that's a different
story...


Yup, I'd agree with that.  My wife prohibits me from having sex with
other people, and I will not cross that boundary.   But I don't see how
I can (or why I should) apply that to anyone else.



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