> Biologically we are all still cavemen, and laws and morality can't stray > too far from the basic underlying reality. Agreed, but we CAN think beyond that. As long as we are talking strictly recreational sex, and taking precautions against STDs, how does it harm me for my partner to have sex with someone else? There's also a whole realm of enjoyment that does not involve sex per se, and of course none of that biological imperative should apply there either. -- http://www.piclist.com PIC/SX FAQ & list archive View/change your membership options at http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/piclist