>>- Explain why /why not?
> Because we don't have any insecurity problems with our relationship. 
> My
> wife often points out other women to me, making comments about how
> pretty they are etc. she often spends time with male friends and 
> vice
> versa.

You have "male friends"? :-)

Seriously though - a relationship that genuinely has no insecurities 
is  a blessed one. But protecting oneself against the things which 
destroy many relationships, because you value the relationship you 
have, can be very wise. Some people may be strong enough to be able to 
expose themselves to what would be dangerous to most. Many who fail do 
not know their weaknesses until too late. Standing somewhat back from 
the dangerous edge is usually well advised in most of life's dangerous 
activities - even if the view from the edge is better.

>>- What's the URL?
>>- Are there any limitations on where I can post this URL (apart from
>>bandwidth issues)
> Yeah, I suspect some of those Church-going types would throw a fit 
> ;)

Hardly. There's far too much bad stuff out their for one tasteful, 
artistic and honouring site of pictures of your wife to bother anyone 
:-)

>>Are there REALLY any takers on this list who would be happy with 
>>this
>>for their own family members? C'mon guys. Stand up and be counted.
>>It's not porn. It's tasteful. It's honouring. It's good clean
>>uplifting wholesome stuff. Bring out your daughters ...

> It is what you perceive it to be.  If you are a puritan, perhaps it
> violates your moral code, but I like to think I'm reasonably open
> minded.

Rather, I think, it is what all the people who view it perceive it to 
be - with the "worst case" 10% (say) of viewers setting the level that 
you probably care about. You can be utterly certain that for some, 
probably many viewers at even the domani site level it is masturbation 
material or the mental equivalent, and for almost all a source of lust 
generation which is viewed with that in mind. Whether that is "bad" is 
another issue. Whether that is what you would be happy to expose your 
wife/daughters to is also up to you. If one is reasonably open minded 
then there's probably nothing much or nothing at all wrong with the 
idea of others lusting after your wife and daughters and fantasising 
about them, so if it makes them feel good that's good. The less open 
minded may feel slightly differently.



        Russell McMahon

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