>>>But it can be accepted to greater or lesser degrees to have a spouse and additional Lovers. Although the non-spouses wouldn't get those state "marriage benefits."<<< Utah recently prosecuted a guy who had multiple wives. His defense was that they were 'girlfriends'. The state was able to convince the judge/jury that he was in fact common-law married to them - and got a polygamy conviction. It struck me as kind of wrong - I mean, a guy can have multiple girlfriends - and even kids with them. Makes him a bit of a roue, but he can still do it. _______________________________________________ http://www.piclist.com View/change your membership options at http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/piclist