> Maybe some sort of conductive coating for the copper?

Just thinking - if gold plating works out to be a problem, you
should be able to cut plated bits out a scrap PCB, eg part of
an edge connector or heatsink pad, and mount that on your
own PCB. Use someone else's rather than make your own

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