> It depends on which method you're interested in. I'll describe both.
> First, LVP (Low-Voltage Programming):

And maybe you don't need ICSP? Consider a bootloader, 1 pin minimum (and if
you pay me I'll make a version that can bootload using only the MCLR pin).

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