> Clipsal make a range of soft start switches. (~ AU$20 each)

Thanks, I'll have a look into those. AU$20 is  ~ NZ$30 so it may
yet be worth having a go at my own

"Belt and braces" would be a voltage-dropping component plus
a PIC that would gradually increase the length of the portion of
the cycles

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