It is not a good idea to try kludging up I2C. Whatever the voltage it is pulled up to, it will be vulnerable to noise. When a slave pulls the signal down, there's a low-z path to ground. When floating high, it is high-z and thus sensitive to noise. This kind of thing has all been done before, nearly a dozen times, for factory automation. They're called field buses. Each has pros and cons. Check put SDS Devicenet (based on CANbus) or Profibus (based on high-speed RS485) to get an idea of what's needed to do the job! Unless you want to spend millions (really!) developing protocols and hardware, I'd suggest a low speed RS485 network. All the home security systems I've seen are pretty dumb, in that the only output is an alarm. I thought about designing a system where a central low-power PC could log events like PIR sensors going off in the back garden at 3 a.m. Even if they don't break in, its worth knowing when someone is casing your joint!